Communication is a two-way street and isn't just about getting your message across.  It's also important to understand what other people are saying to you.  Think of it this way: if you're speaking, you want people to pay attention to you.  If your listener was yawning, fidgeting or looking bored while you were speaking, do you think they're really listening to what you are saying? How would that make you feel? Treat others as you would want to be treated, so when someone is speaking to you, listen to what they have to say.

To show that you are listening, use nonverbal signals that indicate you’re engaged. Make frequent eye contact and use verbal cues or nodding to show that you’re following the conversation. Ask questions or repeat/paraphrase what you’ve heard to indicate that you're paying attention.  Watch your body language; use "open" body language; don’t cross your arms or slouch ("closed" body language). Good posture is a way of conveying alertness, and it indicates that you’re paying attention. Effective listening techniques include: